Ten Signs That Your Girl Has Given Up On You

Dear guys, we all know that girls are complicated and hard to read but here are ten sure telltale signs to look out for most girls that will tell you when she has already given up on you. Or maybe, starting to give up.


1. SHE WILL NOT TRY TO CATCH YOUR ATTENTION.

- Girls like to fish for attention, whether in an obvious or secretive manner, they always want to catch the attention of the people who they are interested with. So the moment she stops trying to fish for compliments or even catch your attention, immediately ask her. She might say, "Nothing's wrong." but trust me, when a woman says nothing is wrong, SOMETHING IS DEFINITELY WRONG. So don't give up or chicken out until you find out what has been bugging her.

2. SHE WILL NOT FIGHT FOR YOU ANYMORE.

-This doesn't necessarily mean cat fights but the fact that she'd care less and even stop getting jealous means that the relationship is going downhill. One trait that is rampant among most females is that they easily get jealous, even with the most nonsensical thing in the world. They get jealous because they care a lot about the people they are interested with. (Well, the level and intensity of the jealousy differs among females though so you better watch out for that.)

3. SHE WON'T REPLY YOUR MESSAGE QUICKLY ANYMORE.

- Females always reply fast as much as possible to the people they are interested with. Even if they're doing something important, she'll always be mindful and reply as fast as she could. So one indicator that she has started to give up is when she replies late or it takes too long for her to respond even if she is doing nothing. And worst? When she says she's busy to reply even when in reality, she's absolutely doing nothing.

4. SHE WON'T TRY TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING ANYMORE.

-As I have said, females like to catch the attention of the people they are interested in and would do anything to keep the conversation going. Even if the replies are total conversation stoppers, if a female is truly interested, she would divert the conversation to another topic but if not, she'll leave it as is and man, you need to remedy that ASAP.

5. SHE WILL NOT CARE ANYMORE.

-I'll make this short. She'll stop caring. She'll stop asking if you ate already, where you have been, what your plans are, where you plan on going, who you're with, what you're doing. That kind of stuff. She would no longer care and she would no longer be curious.

6. SHE WILL NO LONGER BE JEALOUS.

- As I said, females get jealous easily even on the most nonsensical thing in the world but that is just a proof that they care a lot. So once she will no longer be jealous then that only means that she doesn't give a damn about you any longer. Poor guy :(

7. SHE WILL FLIRT AND TALK TO OTHER GUYS.

- Faithful females would always avoid flirting and talking to other guys in fear that the person they are interested in might misunderstand so it would be an obvious sign that she has already started to stop minding about your existence in her life.

8. SHE WILL NO LONGER CARE IF YOU CARE OR NOT ANYMORE.

-Whether they'd admit it or not, girls would always try to make you jealous or mad just to see and check if you care about her or not. But once she stops trying and even caring to the point of sarcasm, well, I suggest you better prepare yourself buddy.

9. SHE WILL NO LONGER GO TO YOUR PROFILE AND WHINE TO PEOPLE ABOUT HOW HAPPY YOU ARE TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS.

-Girls will always be girls. The jealous type. They'd stalk, observe and check your movement most of the time if possible and when she sees something that would make her jealous, she'd transform into a drama queen and make her FB wall a way to vent out what she feels. I'm not saying all though, but MOST girls are like that. So even if you get lovey dovey with someone on your account publicly, in hope of making her jealous, once she gives up, SHE WON'T CARE CAUSE SHE ALREADY STOPPED KEEPING TABS ON YOU.

10. SHE WILL GIVE UP ON TRYING TO MAKE YOU LOVE HER BECAUSE SHE FINALLY REALIZED THAT SHE DESERVES BETTER. 

-If you add all the signs, everything will add up to this. She will give up on everything related to the two of you. She will give up on pleasing you, on making you happy, on making you love her more because she realized that she deserves someone better. No matter who's fault it might be, the bottomline is she has given up on you and it is up to you if you'll make it up to her so the relationship will sail smoothly again or if you will just give up too.

Personally, I believe that everything could be solved through peaceful talking so if you truly love your girl, don't and never take her for granted because once she gives up on you, it would take a long time on winning her back :) Happy loving, people <3