PREPARE YOUR ANUS ...
When I first indulged in sex, anal sex was never in my list of "Things to Try in Sex". I never liked the idea of having a penis going in and out of my butthole. I thought that it was plainly disgusting. So I never did.
Well, not until my boyfriend pressured me out of it. I admit, it was a wrong decision. You should never, ever let somebody pressure you to do things. It ruins the fun. The first time I did it, I cried. He had no idea what he was doing. It was brutal and I hated it. I asked him to take it out but he never did until he came. I hated it. From then on, I always snaked my way out of it every time he asked.
But moving forward, we broke up and I ended up with a fuck buddy. He was fun and adventurous on and off the bed but he always made sure in asking of my permission beforehand. After a month of being together, I ended up wanting to try it again and so we did. But this time, it was pleasurable. Painful yet the pleasure was there.
Anal sex can be intimidating at first but you can make it easier.
The reason so many people never want to try anal sex is because they think it will be messy, unsexy or even unsafe. Follow these guidelines during your anal sex preparation and you will never ever have to worry about it being messy or unsexy.
1. GET SUPER CLEAN
- The first part is always crucial. Always make sure to use the bathroom first. Never do it if you feel too full. Avoid any food that might give you a loose stool. After cleaning yourself on the inside, proceed to clean yourself on the outside too. A quick shower and soap can do the trick for that.
2. STAY SAFE.
- Always stay safe. Some people think that just because you can't get pregnant by doing it that way, you can just go and skip wearing condoms. Catching an STI from anal sex is possible, thus said, always wear a condom if you guys ever plan on going backdoor.
3. NEVER BE FORCED INTO DOING IT
- Never! Never be forced in doing something just because your partner wants to. If you feel uncomfortable with it, then you have every right to decline. Trust me, it will feel way better if you, yourself wants to do it.
4. LUBE IS YOUR FRIEND
- Yes, some people think that lubricants are messy but come on, it will help you a lot in making the experience easier and much more enjoyable. I suggest going for thick lubricants since water based ones easily dry off.
5. RELAX
- Obviously, vaginal sex is different from anal sex. The biggest difference is how it feels for the both of you. For the receiver, it can be quite unpleasant at first, specially if your partner has no idea on how anal sex works.
6. KNOW "THAT" MUSCLE
- The anal sphincter is found at the entrance of your anus. This muscle plays a very crucial role in how you will enjoy the deed. This muscle isn't like any other. It doesn't relax very quickly but once it does, it can stretch quite a bit. If your man tries to enter you without letting it relax, then the whole ordeal would become very painful and uncomfortable. I suggest for you to basically relax your sphincter so that you can fit your man's penis comfortably in you.
7. GO SLOW
- The last and arguably the most important part of learning how to prepare for anal sex is making sure to communicate effectively with your partner so that he understands the potential pain he can cause you. I suggest starting in the dogstyle position with your man upright and quite still while you are on fours. This way, you will have full control of how fast and deep you can take him. Remember, he must absolutely stay still at first. Then, as you loosen up more and become more comfortable, you can start allowing him to thrust. Just make sure he doesn't get too caught up and forget the right pace that suits you.
And that concludes everything that you need to keep in mind as a beginner in anal sex. Stay safe and have a mind blowing experience!
But moving forward, we broke up and I ended up with a fuck buddy. He was fun and adventurous on and off the bed but he always made sure in asking of my permission beforehand. After a month of being together, I ended up wanting to try it again and so we did. But this time, it was pleasurable. Painful yet the pleasure was there.
Anal sex can be intimidating at first but you can make it easier.
The reason so many people never want to try anal sex is because they think it will be messy, unsexy or even unsafe. Follow these guidelines during your anal sex preparation and you will never ever have to worry about it being messy or unsexy.
1. GET SUPER CLEAN
- The first part is always crucial. Always make sure to use the bathroom first. Never do it if you feel too full. Avoid any food that might give you a loose stool. After cleaning yourself on the inside, proceed to clean yourself on the outside too. A quick shower and soap can do the trick for that.
2. STAY SAFE.
- Always stay safe. Some people think that just because you can't get pregnant by doing it that way, you can just go and skip wearing condoms. Catching an STI from anal sex is possible, thus said, always wear a condom if you guys ever plan on going backdoor.
3. NEVER BE FORCED INTO DOING IT
- Never! Never be forced in doing something just because your partner wants to. If you feel uncomfortable with it, then you have every right to decline. Trust me, it will feel way better if you, yourself wants to do it.
4. LUBE IS YOUR FRIEND
- Yes, some people think that lubricants are messy but come on, it will help you a lot in making the experience easier and much more enjoyable. I suggest going for thick lubricants since water based ones easily dry off.
5. RELAX
- Obviously, vaginal sex is different from anal sex. The biggest difference is how it feels for the both of you. For the receiver, it can be quite unpleasant at first, specially if your partner has no idea on how anal sex works.
6. KNOW "THAT" MUSCLE
- The anal sphincter is found at the entrance of your anus. This muscle plays a very crucial role in how you will enjoy the deed. This muscle isn't like any other. It doesn't relax very quickly but once it does, it can stretch quite a bit. If your man tries to enter you without letting it relax, then the whole ordeal would become very painful and uncomfortable. I suggest for you to basically relax your sphincter so that you can fit your man's penis comfortably in you.
7. GO SLOW
- The last and arguably the most important part of learning how to prepare for anal sex is making sure to communicate effectively with your partner so that he understands the potential pain he can cause you. I suggest starting in the dogstyle position with your man upright and quite still while you are on fours. This way, you will have full control of how fast and deep you can take him. Remember, he must absolutely stay still at first. Then, as you loosen up more and become more comfortable, you can start allowing him to thrust. Just make sure he doesn't get too caught up and forget the right pace that suits you.
And that concludes everything that you need to keep in mind as a beginner in anal sex. Stay safe and have a mind blowing experience!
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