But let's face it. You might end up being uncomfortable and tired, specially on the legs. Honestly, you're not gonna feel that way if done right. Being on top offers more gratification than other sex positions because it lets you feel closer to your partner and puts you in charge of your own pleasure. You decide how fast the pace is and how deep your guy will enter you, making it more likely for the woman to reach an orgasm. It might sound like sexual science fiction but woman on top is supposed to be comfortable, make you feel seductive and sensual and offers a high probability of an orgasm.
So to help you feel good about it, here are 4 ways to master the woman on top position.
FIRST TIP : Be Confident, Straddle Up
-The first thing you gotta do before assuming the position is to be confident, seductive and sensual. It might seem like you will need an instruction booklet to get this right but you don't. It is all about perspective. Feel sexy, be sexy. Your guy's dong won't stand in attention if he doesn't find you attractive, so own it. Leaning backward makes your boobs perkier and your stomach flatter. Plus he gets a full frontal view of your glory, which turns him on a lot.
- If you'd rather be less revealing, pull your guy's shoulders toward you so you're both sitting upright with your legs wrapped around each other and your torsos melded together. If he prefers to lie down, you could just lean forward as if you're going on a doggy style position and you can proceed to move from there.
- Another tip : don't be too hasty to put it in. Make sure that he's rock hard and that you're wet. Tease and stimulate him a little bit. Tease him before he enters you by slowly running your fingers down his chest to his shaft and stroking his member until it's good and hard. Then with one hand on the best or his chest for support, hold the base of his penis with your other hand and slowly lower yourself onto him. You can also hover for a bit, brushing against the tip of his member with your clit if it feel good for you. Kiss his chest, stick your butt up in the air and slowly guide his penis into your vagina. Savor it. Make sure that it's entirely in before moving. Give your pelvic muscles a little squeeze for extra sensation. Remember, if you feel good, the chances are so does he!
SECOND TIP : Move to the Groove
- Once you got everything settled inside, it's time to settle into a rhythm. Remember, sitting on your guy and pounding on him or grinding circles around his member is not as simple as it sounds. It's really tiring. It involves a lot of your biggest muscles like the ones in your legs. There are other ways to enjoy this position than moving up and down, which gets you tired really fast. Think about it, great sex is all about the rhythm and motion. Both of you have to feel in sync with each other to actually enjoy it. If you move too aggressively, your man who's lying down would never be able to keep up with you.
- Try moving your hips in a steady circular motion. This way, you'll feel your man rub against all sides of your vaginal walls and you can experiment to find penetration and positioning that feel best for you.
- You could also slowly rock back and forth instead of bouncing up and down, moving your body forward until your clit presses against his pubic bone. The combination of feeling him inside you as your privates are being stimulated can make your orgasm faster.
- If you're feeling kinky, you could use a pillow under his butt to raise his pelvis slightly so you could rub against him. You can also fine tune your technique. Arch your back and his member will be against your G-spot. Sit straight up and he'll fit into you more directly, providing a deeper, fuller feel. Keeping your legs together tightens your grip and boosts the sensations for both of you.
THIRD TIP : Let Him Help You
- Just because you're in the lead doesn't mean the guy should just lie back and enjoy the ride. (GUYS, TAKE NOTE PLEASE) Ask him to help out if your knees starts to feel sore or when a simple action from his part would make the sex twice as nice.
- Guys, when you feel like your woman's getting tired, lend a hand by clutching her hips and rear end, gently pulling her forward and backward. You could also try grinding your groins in tandem so you feed off her momentum without letting her to all the waves by herself. Think of it as a sexy seesawing, where you push your pelvis up towards her while she's thrusting down and back. The friction will hike up the excitement and provide clitoral stimulation.
FOURTH TIP : Double the Pleasure
- Raise the game by letting him stimulate your breasts, belly and clitoris as you're riding him. Take advantage of the accessibility of being open by getting your man to give you a little manual pleasure. Having him stroke you as you bump and grind gives you twice as much sensation, which can launch you to an orgasm.
- Here's a tip : Take his hand and make the movements you want him to use so he knows what gets you going. The extra stimulation makes sex better than ever!
No matter what adjustments need to be made, keep this tip in mind : If he pops out at any point, just put it back in and resume the action. Also avoid thrusting too forcefully or you could bend his penis, which can result in a serious injury.
Keep these tips in mind and have an awesome experience. Message me on what position should we talk about next! Thanks for reading. <3
