But that isn't true. Well, most of the time. Men are unique. They differ from each other, from the types of girls they like to how they like it on bed. So I asked around and collected answers from most of my friends and some strangers. There might be guys and even gals, who might not agree with this, so I will point out once again that men's tastes differ from one another. Plus, all of these are their opinion, it is up to you to agree or disagree :)
Here goes!
1. TOO NOISY
Sex is so much better when you can express the level of intensity through your voice. But ladies, kindly keep in mind that too much noise is annoying. You just can't go around screaming your lungs out. Try to keep your voice loud enough only for the two of you to hear. But then again, if your guy is the type who likes to hear you scream for more, then I guess there's nothing wrong with that. But guys normally prefer when you can just moan in a natural, normal and sensual way.
On my point of view, it's kind of hard. I have never been the quiet type. But I do know how to suppress my voice depending on how my partner likes it and on where we are doing it. If you're being kinky in public, you definitely don't want to scream to the world that you're doing something naughty, right? But still, suppressing your voice has its benefits, you can feel the sensations better this way.
2. TOO DEMANDING
Woman on top is a very sexy and kinky idea but let's face it, women being too dominating during sex and too demanding is a total turn off. The woman would be presenting herself to be bossy, making the man nervous or the act might lead the man to lose his cool or his confidence. Yes, you can demand. You're free to do so. But always remember to keep an equal relationship when it comes to demanding. Guys have feelings too. Their ego is way bigger than us girls so it is up to us to satisfy their manly ego as their partner. If you come off to be too demanding and bossy, you might end up losing the chemistry between the two of you.
On my part, I rarely demand. I am the pleaser type. I'd prefer to please rather than to be pleased. Well, I'm not saying that I don't want to be pleased but if I could please my partner in any way possible, it would be sure that he would definitely please me back in return. Unless he's a total asshole who doesn't even know about the give or take rule though. But thus said, if you're partner feels satisfied, he, in return, will also give it his best to satisfy you too. But then again, there are certain things that I do dislike when it comes to sex and when the push comes to shove, that's the only time I demand for "No" but even if I say no, I'll do whatever I can to make up for that.
3. TOO CHATTY
It is okay to be chatty but being TOO CHATTY is definitely a no. Most men like a little bit of peace after the deed has been done. Or if we're going to look at it on the "during" perspective, of course, no one would definitely like someone talking nonsense while you're trying to make love or fuck (might as well point out that making love and having sex are different matters). It definitely ruins the mood.
So I guess I'll be sharing an experience of mine, this was the most recent experience that I had and I admit, I was too chatty. I was really comfortable with him and we had so much to talk about I ended up sharing and talking a lot while we were doing the deed. Good thing he told me that I was starting to get really chatty and I caught myself and made it up to him in the second round. I loved how he moaned and cursed (WHO'S THE NOISY ONE NOW?!) Hahaha! But I realized that being too chatty can actually ruin the mood.
4. TOO MUCH MAKE UP ON
Alright, I can't help but agree on this one A LOT. Putting on make up is okay but make up on even during sexy time? A bit of powder and lip tint would do the trick but too much make up is definitely a no go for me. I find messy hair a total turn on though but smeared make up definitely ruins the mood for me. If your make up isn't water proof then just wash it off before going to bed. Men prefer the natural look, as what most of them told me. I even watched porn videos before where the lead female porn star had too much make up on her it looked disgusting beyond words when she started sweating due to the intensity of how she was fucked. Okay seriously, who won't get sweaty after a sweet, satisfying sex session? Get my point? Go for glowing skin against dim lights (light, oil control powder) and sexy sultry lips that looks begging to be kissed (lip shiner / lip tints). Be natural. Messy hair looks hot but don't overdo it though.
5. TOO STIFF
Stiff girls suck! A lot! And I don't mean stiff in the sense where she's hard as a fucking twig! I meant stiff like she doesn't even enjoy what they're doing and she just lies there, letting the guy do whatever he wants with a displeased look on her face and when the guy asks her what's wrong, she'll just say "NOTHING". IS THAT NOT A TURN OFF FOR YOU?! Well?
Guys like it more when girls are into it. Even with blowjobs. It doesn't matter if you can't give a proper blowjob. It doesn't even matter if you can't deepthroat him, as long as he can see and feel that you're into it, whatever the fuck on Earth you're doing will be more enjoyable. What more on the actual intercourse, right? So ladies, feel it, enjoy it and LOVE EVERY FUCKING SECOND. Like literally.
SO THERE YOU GO! These are the Top Five and the most specific among all the answers that I've collected from my friends and a few others. Well there are still other answers like, too hairy (girls who don't trim or shave) or too smelly (not the musky odor smell of the vagina, rather than the body smell) or even too shy but I just picked the Top Five among the answers haha. So ladies, whether you agree or not, it would be best to keep these in mind. And for guys, if it so happens that there is something about your partner that turns you off that can be easily changed, telling her nicely what it is that bothers you won't hurt so don't hesitate to do so. Thanks for reading <3
